DINNER PARTY: SHRIMP & GRITS

So when it comes to expatriates in Chiang Mai, you've got people from all over. Europe, North America, Australia, you name it. Of those from The U.S.A., you've got two groups: those from California and everybody else. I say all of this to make it very clear that it is hard to come by people from your home, your true home. I'm lucky to be living with another South Carolinian of sorts, and when we connected with another couple from our state, sparks just flew (let me go ahead and apologize for all the ridiculous descriptions to come in this post).

Pam and Glenn invited us over to their beautiful home, which felt like just that the moment we walked in. Watercolor paintings of Charleston and other pieces by our host lined the walls of their quaint, airy home. The night started out simple enough, a bleu cheese salad with cranberries and a vinaigrettete dressing.

As our conversation tilted toward the South, the next course arrived: Meeting Street Crab. This dip was to die for, a cheesy, seafood-y goodness on croutons. This was my first time to try a dish of its kind. The flavors were impeccable, and I swear I could hear the sound of waves at the Battery.

As the sun set and the candlelight glistened through our glasses of sweet tea, Glenn brought out the main course, the whole reason we gathered: shrimp and grits. With bacon as an alternative to the traditional sausage, a flavorful gravy with mushrooms and greens accompanying the grits, this may have been the best rendition of shrimp and grits that I have tasted. Glenn mentioned that this recipe was a first for them, different from what they've put together on the dish in the past. Even so, there weren't any leftovers on my end.

We finished off our four-course with a banana pudding dessert. This one had a bit more class than I was used to, served in a martini glass with a thin waffle instead of Nilla wafers. A huge thanks to Pam and Glenn for making us girls feel at home away from home. I'm ready for the second round of SC in Asia: low country boil.

CHIANG MAI, THAILAND • RUSTIC & BLUE

A little while ago I had a birthday. It seems that the trend for my birthday (which I am by no means complaining about) is dinner and a movie. That happened again this year, but in a new country, with friends I had met all in the past twelve months, and fresh everything. Fresh food, fresh fruit, fresh flowers. You betcha.

Katie did a lot of the planning so that much of this was a surprise to me. We headed to Rustic & Blue for dinner, enjoying the beautiful flower arrangement they provided for our table. The place was airy and bright, the backyard filled with cute tables and teepees. Yes, teepees. This place does all of it's food farm-to-table so you know it's local and it's fresh.

To start off I ordered a mocktail and some others followed suit. Katie's was a fruity thing, I think it was cranberry? Mine was kinda like a mint frappe. Any drink is always better in a stemmed glass, and you only turn 24 once, right? Then the ordering of food began. I took a few pictures, but Rustic & Blue's extensive menu changes on the reg, so I couldn't even begin to capture all that they offer. There was the Rustic Warm Brie Salad, the Duck Fries and the Waffle Bacon Burger. I ordered and aboslutely adored the Pumpkin Gnocchi with Local Sausage. I hope they bring that one back soon. Spicy and delicious.

Not only did the staff arrange flowers for us, but once we had finished eating, one of our servers headed to the fridge to bring out the flower crown they gave me as well as a beautiful creme tart with fresh fruit and nuts.

This place was the perfect birthday spot, and I am looking forward to going back sooner than my 25th birthday. It's a bit of a ways across town from us, but worth it! We left to go back home to watch Leonardo and eat more cake. My thought process: It's my birthday. And we're gonna eat more cake.

CHIANG MAI, THAILAND • VIENG JOOM ON TEAHOUSE

Katie and I had passed this beautiful shop a few times and had heard good tales about it's fabulous teas and lovely patio. All the rumors were true: this place was heavenly. Back in Georgia, Katie had spent lots of time drinking tea in tea houses like this one, but throw in the Asian vibe and you have Vieng Joom On. I wish I had had my camera out to capture our first impression of this beautiful place.